How to Celebrate Your Anniversary When Life Revolves Around Your Kids
For many couples, the next big step after getting married is creating a beautiful family together. But as enriching as your growing family is, date nights, romantic getaways and spontaneous intimacy are often thrown by the wayside.
Although it’s always important to find ways to stay connected to your other half, your anniversary is the perfect time to reignite the spark in your marriage.
Check out these tips for an amazing anniversary celebration that doesn’t revolve around the kids.
Plan Ahead
Sure, a last-minute flight to Fiji would be romantic, but an impromptu holiday just isn’t practical once you’ve had children. That’s why it’s vital that you plan your anniversary ahead of time.
If a weekend getaway to somewhere sunny or a night at a ritzy hotel has you begging ‘yes please’, start looking for a babysitter you can trust several weeks in advance.
If you’ve got in-laws, they’ll probably be more than happy to give you a break for the night. Making reservations ahead of time also ensures that you’ll be able to shop around for the best deals on flights and accommodation. A little planning goes a long way.
Romantic Dinner
OK, this one is an obvious choice, but when you have kids around, romantic dinners get rarer and rarer. Treating yourself to a fine restaurant is also a great excuse to dress up and add a touch of sexiness to your anniversary.
If dining out is not an option or you are just too tired for it, a nice dinner at home just for the two of you can be extra special. Can home dining be romantic? Absolutely! For an extra touch of ‘spice’, why not prepare aphrodisiac foods?
Celebrate Your Marriage with a Tradition
If you’re too swamped to plan a big night out for your anniversary, focus instead on a gift that emphasizes the journey you’ve taken as a couple. Milestone gifts do just that, as every year is marked by a different theme.
For example, if you’re celebrating your 5th year as a married couple, your modern theme is silverware. So, you could give a nod to the gorgeous family you made together by presenting your husband with an ornate silver photo frame housing a family portrait. For more milestone gift ideas, check out this list of gifts by year.
Involve the Kids
Even if you can’t secure a babysitter, that doesn’t mean you can’t have an amazing anniversary at home.
Does your hubby have a favourite meal? Spend the day cooking with love to create it for him. If the kids are buzzing around, put them to work straightening up the house and helping you in the kitchen. You can also keep them busy by asking them to create a sweet drawing of you and Daddy (also perfect to put in a photo frame as a gift!).
Once the kids are down for bed, make yourself comfortable on the couch for some cuddling and a film. Spice things up with a sexy dessert, like strawberries dipped in chocolate then retire to the bedroom to revisit your wedding night…
Take a Class Together
Making time to reconnect with your partner between work and kids can be challenging. However, it is a key component of a strong and successful marriage.
Find one day a week or fortnight that you can carve out some time together. Then, sign up for a local class. Cooking, language or even sculpting classes are a fun way to spend time together and learn a new skill at the same time. If you can’t find a sitter, you may be able to find a community-based initiative the runs classes for children concurrently.
Keeping your marriage strong isn’t always easy when you’ve got little ones to think of. However, a little effort goes a long way in maintaining an enviable connection with your spouse. By using these tips, you can use your anniversary to cement your bond with your spouse and celebrate the beautiful life you’ve made together.
Article from J. Dowling
