How To Plan A Perfect Baby Shower

Your feet are swollen, you are carrying 10 extra kilos minimum, you’re weeks from birth and you feel unrecognisable, so why on earth are you going to host a baby shower where makeup, hair and non-alcoholic bevvies are the order of the day? The above reasons are exactly why you should…

Those extra ten kilos are the mark of a little miracle growing inside you. It’s the mark of your body accommodating for the birth of a little bundle of joy. It’s a celebration of your super-power, to grow a human, who may or may not change the world, but who will undoubtedly change yours. For all of those reasons, you should celebrate and prepare for the arrival of this life-altering chapter with the help of generous family and friends who are all-too-happy to buy the nappies (or get some free nappy samples) and dolls that will help you in this next chapter.

As an event stylist, I can tell you, these choices do not have to break the bank. The trick is in how you tackle it.

These are my top FIVE tips for planning an unforgettable Baby Shower:

Choose a venue – whether it’s a community hall or a high-tea, make sure your venue suits your budget, accommodates for your décor and creates an intimate space where all of your favourite women and/or men can hear each other and celebrate you. There’s nothing worse than sparing your Saturday to sit in a corner as a guest, undervalued and unacknowledged. Party favors are a great way to tell people you appreciate their attendance.
Minimise the games you play – while a few games can be a bit of fun and bring out the competitive streak in your favourite Auntie, most people are happy to mingle and enjoy each other’s company without the event feeling like work. Creating a relaxed vibe is key to your personal enjoyment as well as your guests. Select one or two from our Baby Shower Games Ideas article that are actually fun (and free!).
Outsource help – indecision will stress you out and may make the day feel like more work than it has to be. By outsourcing, you’ll take some pressure off of yourself which will help you enjoy the day. Help can come from an event stylist/planner, a friend, your mum, or even a fabulous aunt. Most women will empathise with your discomfort and will be keen to help.
Style your event – guests love the visual stimulation of an “instagrammable” event and creating something photo-worthy creates a beautiful memory for you as well. It doesn’t have to be Pinterest-worthy and unrealistic (although Pinterest does have some fantastic ideas) – it just has to be you. There are plenty of budget-friendly options to add glamour to your day.
Be selective about your guests – the most important person on the day is you. Make sure your guests won’t stress you out or limit the joy you feel at your Shower. It’s not a wedding so don’t feel the pressure to invite that twice-removed fifth cousin who you haven’t seen in decades. Remember to enjoy yourself. The memories of this day should last a lifetime and it’s the company you keep over the colour scheme that will make it a special day.

Author bio:
Miriam Sawan is a former television producer turned public relations professional. While helping plan her sister-in-law’s bridal shower, she realised she had a knack for styling events, leading her to launch her event styling business, Mimic Events. She is often covered in glitter, spray paint and fabric remnants in preparation for her jobs on weekends. She enjoys making things beautiful and the joy that brings her clients.
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